1．When you meet someone for the first time，you will form an impression in your mind of that person in the first moment．Your reactions to other people，however，are really just barometers （晴雨表） for how you perceive（理解） yourself．Your reactions to others say more about you than they do about others．You cannot really love or hate something about another unless it reflects something you love or hate yourself．We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and tend to dislike those who display those aspects of ourselves that we dislike．
Therefore，you can allow others to be the mirror to illuminate （闡明；照亮） more clearly your own feelings of self-worth．Conversely（相反地），you can view the people you judge negatively as mirrors to show you what you are not accepting about yourself．
To survive together peacefully with others，you will need to learn tolerance．A big challenge is to shift your perspective from judgment of others to a lifelong exploration of yourself．Your task is to assess all the decisions，judgments you make onto others and to begin to view them as clues to how you can heal yourself and become whole．
Several days ago I had a business lunch with a man who displayed objectionable table manners．My first reaction was to judge him as rude and his table manners as annoying．When I noticed that I was judging him，I stopped and asked myself what I was feeling．I discovered that I was embarrassed to be seen with someone who was chewing with his mouth open and loudly blowing his nose．I was astonished to find how much I cared about how the other people in the restaurant perceived me．
Remember that your judgment of someone will not serve as a protective shield against you becoming like him．My judging my lunch partner as rude does not prevent me from ever looking or acting like him．In the same way，extending tolerance to him would not cause me to suddenly begin chewing my food with my mouth open．
When you approach life in this manner，those with whom you have the greatest dissatisfactions as well as those you admire and love can be seen as mirrors，guiding you to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your greatest quality．
56．We can know from the passage that the author advises people toB．
A．a(chǎn)void inappropriate manners．
B．learn tolerance towards others．
C．pay attention to others'needs and feelings．
D．judge others favorably in any case．
57．The underlined word"objectionable"in Paragraph 4has the closest meaning toC．
A．discouraging B．satisfying C．unpleasant D．a(chǎn)cceptable
58．According to the passage，the following statements are all true exceptA．
A．You can't really love or hate others if they are similar to you．
B．We are easily attracted by someone who is similar to us．
C．Our first judgment of a person mostly comes from our personal opinion．
D．The moment we see a stranger，our mind forms an impression of that person．
59．Throughout the entire story，the last paragraph serves as a（n）D．
A．explanation B．example C．background D．conclusion
60．It can be implied from the text thatC．
A．the writer's first reaction to the man was to judge him as offensive
B．we will need to learn tolerance to coexist with others
C．we shouldn't focus on judging others but should constantly reflect on our own
D．the writer didn't care about other people's view of him．
分析 本文是一篇人生感悟類閱讀，講述了我們不喜歡的人的身上有很多我們不喜歡我們自己的地方．這些我們喜歡還是不喜歡的地方都反應(yīng)出我們自己的性格的很多方面，我們不要總是去判斷別人，而是要反思我們自己．
解答 56．答案：B．主旨大意題．本文講述了我們不喜歡的人的身上有很多我們不喜歡我們自己的地方．根據(jù)文章倒數(shù)第二段In the same way，extending tolerance to him would not cause me to suddenly begin chewing my food with my mouth open．以及文章最后一句guiding you to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your greatest quality．都告訴我們要學(xué)會(huì)容忍和接納．故選B．
57．答案：C．推理判斷題．根據(jù)第三段1，2行Several days ago I had a business lunch with a man who displayed objectionable table manners．My first reaction was to judge him as rude and his table manners as annoying．可知，我認(rèn)為他是一個(gè)在餐桌上沒有禮貌的人，他的餐桌禮儀是讓人厭惡的，和前面后面的annoying是近義詞．故選C．
58．答案：A．推理判斷題．根據(jù)文章第一段最后2行We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and tend to dislike those who display those aspects of ourselves that we dislike．說明，我們喜歡那些和我們有很多相似之處的人，不喜歡那些和我們有很多的差異的人．故選A．
59．答案：D．細(xì)節(jié)理解題．根據(jù)最后一段"When you approach life in this manner，those with whom you have the greatest dissatisfactions as well as those you admire and love can be seen as mirrors，guiding you to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your greatest quality"可知，當(dāng)你以這種方式走進(jìn)生活時(shí)，那些你不滿意的，你羨慕和喜愛的人都像是一面鏡子，指引你發(fā)現(xiàn)你身上的不足．可以看出，這是得出的結(jié)論．故選D．
60．答案：C．推理判斷題．根據(jù)倒數(shù)第二段前3行Remember that your judgment of someone will not serve as a protective shield against you becoming like him．Just because I judge my lunch partner as rude does not prevent me from ever looking or acting like him．可知，我們不要總是去判斷別人，而是要反思我們自己．因?yàn)樵谖覀儾幌矚g的人的身上有很多我們的所不喜歡的自己的性格的反應(yīng)．故選C．
點(diǎn)評(píng) 本文是一篇人生感悟類閱讀，題目涉及細(xì)節(jié)理解題，主旨大意題，推理判斷題，做題時(shí)應(yīng)結(jié)合文章上下文內(nèi)容并根據(jù)所給選項(xiàng)的含義進(jìn)行分析，從而得出正確答案．切記胡亂猜測(cè)，一定要做到有理有據(jù)．
