13."Sorry,but I don't agree with you…"This is usually followed by unbearable silence and angry tears.I've always found it difficult to disagree with someone because I don't want to lose a friend.I've found it even harder to accept it when someone disagrees with me,because my ego (自尊心) is hurt.
Before the other person gets a chance to explain why she disagrees with me,my usual response would be,"If you aren't able to see my point of view,then what you think isn't worth my time or consideration,either."But now I've come to realize that when a friend disagrees with me,sometimes she is simply saying,"I don't agree with the way things are done."She still respects me as a person,and is only pointing out a better way to look at a matter.However,there may be times when my friend disagrees with me because I'm against the truth.That's when I need to listen to what she says.
I've learned that for me one way to help my friend is to be open and honest with the other to voice my thoughts and listen to the other carefully.While we can't control how a person will respond to our views,we must learn to disagree with our friends in love.We will never feel that we are better than the other person.And that will help us to be less emotional,and more objective in the way we express our opinions.In the same way,we can also stay open to feedback (反饋) from others,knowing that our friends may be correcting us in love.
Good friendships build each other up,sometimes through disagreements and honest opinions.Though I don't like being disagreed with,I'm starting to see the value of such disagreements.
32.The author has found it difficult to disagree with someone becauseB.
A.he is a friendly person
B.he wants to keep the friendship
C.he has no mind of his own
D.he usually hides his ideas
33.When a friend disagreed with him,the author used toA.
A.be unhappy
B.a(chǎn)rgue with the friend
C.break up with the friend
D.explain things calmly
34.The author will listen to a friend whenD.
A.he does things in the wrong way
B.he doesn't tell the truth
C.he is respected by the friend
D.he is against the truth
35.What does the author mainly talk about in the text?C
A.How to keep friendship.
B.How to avoid hurting a friend.
C.How to deal with disagreements.
D.How to express disagreements.
分析 短文主要講了作者以前和現(xiàn)在分別是如何看待與朋友意見不一的,作者現(xiàn)在的看法是當(dāng)與別人意見不一的時候,也能從其他人的看法學(xué)到東西.
解答 32.B,細(xì)節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)句子I've always found it difficult to disagree with someone because I don't want to lose a friend可知,作者覺得很難跟人意見不一致,因為他不想破壞這段友誼,故答案為B.
33.A,推理判斷題,根據(jù)句子I've found it even harder to accept it when someone disagrees with me,because my ego (自尊心) is hurt.可以推斷,以前當(dāng)別人跟作者看法不一致時,作者應(yīng)該是感到不開心的,故答案為A.
34.D,細(xì)節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)句子However,there may be times when my friend disagrees with me because I'm against the truth.That's when I need to listen to what she says.可知,當(dāng)作者反對真相時,就會聽朋友說了什么,故答案為D.
35.C,主旨大意題,短文主要講了作者以前和現(xiàn)在分別是如何看待與朋友意見不一的,作者現(xiàn)在的看法是當(dāng)與別人意見不一的時候,也能從其他人的看法學(xué)到東西,因此短文主要講了如何處理意見不一,故答案為C.
點評 解答任務(wù)型閱讀理解題,首先對原文材料迅速瀏覽,掌握全文的主旨大意.因為閱讀理解題一般沒有標(biāo)題,所以,速讀全文,抓住中心主旨很有必要,在速讀的過程中,應(yīng)盡可能多地捕獲信息材料.其次,細(xì)讀題材,各個擊破.掌握全文的大意之后,細(xì)細(xì)閱讀每篇材料后的問題,弄清每題要求后,帶著問題,再回到原文中去尋找、捕獲有關(guān)信息.最后,要善于抓住每段的主題句,閱讀時,要有較強的針對性.對于捕獲到的信息,要做認(rèn)真分析,仔細(xì)推敲,理解透徹,只有這樣,針對題目要求,才能做到穩(wěn)、準(zhǔn).